There’s an old German saying that goes,
“You have to take life as it happens, but you should try to make it happen the way you want to take it.”
Are you planning to just let life “happen” to you or do you plan to play an active part in designing the life you want?
Some of you may say,
Yes, I would like to do that, but trouble is, I don’t know how to get started.
So you just go with the crowd, or take the path that’s most hassle-free.
Unfortunately, more often than not, the crowd may not know where it is going, and if so, then everyone ends up like everyone else, wondering what has happened to their life many years down the road!
Generally, people can be group into three groups;
one group wonder why things happen,
another group make things happen, and
another wonder what happen?
Which group are you?
Lots of people tend to take life for granted.
They think they are going to live forever, death happen only to others until they are in their 40s, 50s, or older.
Are you willing to take that chance?
Remember, you only have one life, that one stage, and you can’t turn back the clock.
Life is not a full dress rehearsal; it’s only going to happen once.
You can’t say, “Cut, let’s start it all over again.”
The truth is, for most people, after 20 or 30 years of working, they only discover what they do not want, without a clue as to what they really want in life.
We all know we want something.
Words like financial freedom, success, wealth, lifestyle, are catch-words, phrases every Tom, Dick, & Harry is using and talking.
But!
Do you know what it actually means?
Do you know what it takes to achieve that?
Do you know how or where to get it?
So our advice is: take the time right now to work out a design for your life. If life was a movie, and you are the producer and actor, what role would you want to play and how would the plot unfold?
Designing your life is like making a movie.
You have to be able to see the end at the beginning.
It may start off a little hazy and blur, but as you continue working on it, it would become clearer and clearer. You’ve got to write the script, put in the characters.
Use your imagination, let your creative juices flow.
Does it mean that what you have designed is going to be set in concrete? Certainly not! You are the producer, co-creator of your life. You can change, delete, or add in anything you want in your project.
But at least by doing this exercise of designing your life, you are in control of your circumstances, rather than become a victim of them.
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